We often picture God’s will for our lives like a thin, definitive line. A tightrope we must walk carefully and with the utmost caution. One wrong step and we’ll surely fall. And when we do, we’ll mess up our future forever.
But when we come to know Jesus, our life is not a tightrope but a wide, open space of grace. We have so much room to breathe, to grow, to learn. God knows we are human. He knows we will take detours, face obstacles, and make mistakes. If he were committed only to using those of us who never stray then no human would ever be part of his plan.
A seventeenth-century craftsman worked alone with primitive tools, but his focus everyday was to put the best he had into his work. This man made violins. He created his own personal standard of excellence and signed his name on each instrument that passed the test.
According to recent statistics, I made 5,000 decisions today.
Some of our everyday choices are random, others weighty, but many of our decisions become choice points, leading us in one direction or another.
If we could have coffee today, I’d say, "You’re part of a plan!"
When you look at the future, you wonder what’s ahead. How will everything work out? Where are you going? What will tomorrow bring?
You can rest assured that there is One who already knows the answer to all of those questions. He’s the God who created time and he’s not limited by it. He knows everything in a way that's beyond our understanding.
In the gospel of Luke, Jesus asks a question. "Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?"
Planning is crucial to any endeavor. The old saying goes, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” This is true of our finances, our eating, how we use our time, every area of life.
Dr. Richard Dobbins has been in counseling for about 40 years. He made this statement: "In all my years at Emerge Ministries, I have never had someone with significant issues who had adequate verbal love expressed by their parents."
That is a huge, time-bomb statement made by an expert.
If we could have coffee today I'd say, "You've already won!"
You've been fighting a hard battle. Behind closed doors, within the quietness of your heart, in the hours when it seems the rest of the world is sleeping. You are a warrior, my friend. A person of courage. Yes, you. The one who sometimes feels weak. The one who wonders if they will ever prevail. The one whose hand trembles on the sword sometimes.
Husbands and wives may be different in the way they view money. Some like to save, some spend. Some like detail and looking at numbers, while others don’t want to be bothered with the details.
The fact is that God has made us different for a reason. He knows that bringing people together who have different tendencies and priorities helps bring balance to a relationship.
Most of the women had left the room. I could sense that she wanted to flee, but something kept her feet rooted to the floor.
"I've been told for years that when I forgive myself I'll be free," she said. "But I can't do it. I've tried."
This beautiful mom and wife had been trying for years to do a job that wasn't hers to perform.
What is a "comfort zone?" Comfort zones are invisible barriers of belief, attitude and behavior that make us feel comfortable and secure.
Comfort is good unless it restricts us from needed change.